Couples Coaching

"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it."

John Lennon

Couples Coaching is a “get-away-retreat” designed to assist couples to work, love, live and play together with greater ease, effectiveness and aliveness.

The two day program includes significant interaction with Martha who will focus entirely on supporting you to integrate your individual wants and needs into your relationship successfully. Grounded in a solid win/win philosophy, Martha believes that if it isn’t working for one partner, then it isn’t working for either. In support of your growth together, you will be given an extensive intake form, some written work, a number of interactive processes and exercises, guided visualizations and open dialog that address your specific areas in need of attention. The end result opens fresh perspectives and new possibilities. It is practical learning that can be immediately transferred to your daily life and transform it.

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What People Are Saying

"Without a doubt, this saved our marriage!"

“Absolutely life changing. I cannot believe what I have accomplished as a result."

"Awesome. Brilliant!"

"The best experience I can ever remember having."

"The best thing we ever could have done for our marriage"

"A simple 'thank you' doesn't capture the sense of gratitude I feel."

"At first, I was really skeptical, but found it to be extremely worthwhile. I recommend it highly"

Results of Couples Coaching

  • * New techniques to handle conflicts, arguments and other emotional challenges

    * Tools to turn an argument into a positive interaction

    * Processes to heal old wounds and resolve differences

    * Eliminate dysfunctional behaviors and return to healthy connection

  • * Broaden your understanding of each other and reconnect with intimacy

    * Ignite passion through honest interaction

    * Establish a balance between time together and independence

    * Learn ways to give and receive unconditionally

    * Cultivate more romance

    * Tools to eliminate emotional avoidance

  • * Build and deepen the trust between you and your partner

    * Learn how to be allies

    * Experience confidence and trust with your partner as you reach a new level of understanding of yourself

    * Feel and express compassion and appreciation for your partner

    * Improve your problem solving skills

  • * Learn powerful skills and techniques to generate open, honest and productive communication

    * Methods to be honest and direct without hurt feelings

    * Create connection by learning how to express genuine empathy

    * Feel understood and appreciated as a result of your open, honest sharing

  • * Design your future based on mutual agreements and goals

    * Discover how to create genuine happiness for you and your partner

    * Create a joyful, free and mutually respectful future together

  • * Revitalize, reinvent and reconnect with fun

    * Learn when and how to not take each other too seriously

    * Share special moments that reconnect you to the joy of being together

  • "I do not think that in the past 28 years of marriage, I have felt as honest and loving to my husband as I did in this weekend. We said things to each other that we had taken for granted. We acknowledged the love, the trust and the support that has ebbed and flowed for 28 years. We have laid the ground work for our journey together into the future."

    Sarah Gaines, Real Estate Broker

  • "The few days we spent with you [Martha] was the best investment we ever could have made for our relationship. Your insights into problems we had worked on for years were amazing! I wish we had known about you a long time ago. We especially liked the part about 'everyone's accountable and no one is to blame'. How simple and yet, we never understood that before. Everyone in the world should spend time with you. Thank you, thank you!!

    Ceci and Charlie Freeman

  • "I am not normally given to overreaction. And as a man, I can be too tightly bound within myself at times. This weekend helped me to relax, open up and get closer to my wife whom I really love."

    Matt Morgan, Attorney